Balanced Calibration
The Grounded Realist
A harmonious integration of self-worth and realistic capacity. Failure is seen as clean data; success is seen as earned effort.
Dr. Valerie Young's Competence Typologies
Valerie Young identified specific "Competence Types" that characterize self-doubt. Explore these patterns to see if you recognize your own cognitive defaults:
"Anything less than 100% perfection is a total failure."
This individual sets extremely high goals for themselves. Even if they meet 99% of their targets, they will obsess over the 1% they missed, framing the entire outcome as an unmitigated disaster.
Practice celebrating the 'rough draft' stage of work. Reframe errors as critical feedback data rather than absolute identity assessments.
Internal monologue
"I know my limits, I trust my skills, and I can learn what I don't yet know."